Where to start?






The name is Paul-Anthony, some call me Tony but the ones that count most call me Daddy. Native to Charlotte, I am a burly home-grown southern gent. A little more rock than country is my family tradition. As a single father of three, my kids take priority in my life. Being white and nerdy I have turned to the virtual scene to meet people. It just seems so much easier here and I figure the odds to find quality and great conversation are better here then in a bar.








Although I am a bit of a nerd I am a huge music addict. Music is like oxygen to me; can't function without it. I can listen and enjoy all different types and styles. I play a few video games and I like to read comic books and watch animi. Soul Eater is on of my favorites at the moment. Not big into reality TV or much television at all. A few shows I try and catch here and there when the current season is new. I do watch AMC [Adult Swim] SciFi and BBCA. Watching more of Planet Green too, it's kinda of growing on me. I enjoy going out to the movies and maybe a comedy show or two. Live music is always best. I like to do Karaoke and eat Fondue. All these are just some random facts that make up who I am.






I'm looking for...


Often I found myself saying I don't have enough time for a relationship but I think that's just me taking an easy out. Everyone deserves someone.
So I've opened my eyes to the possibility.



As far as that certain someone goes.... I am looking for a real lady, one that acts like one and deserves to be treated as such. I am hoping to find someone to talk to, true companionship; a woman with whom I can make the most out of the moments I can steal to sweep you off your feet with some wining and dining. I believe there is intimacy beyond the bedroom; I want to cuddle as we enjoy music reading a book or relaxing watching a movie together. I am searching for someone who shares my disdain for the same old song and dance of games and drama; I prefer to skip the nonsense. I want someone who is mature and confident with a sense of self and what you want from the future. What are you looking for?




Music is my escape. I have a wide variety of taste, ever changing...well truth be told I have to draw the line at The Bacon Brothers...come on Kevin what where you thinking?


I guess I should also include that I enjoy Karaoke. Literally, empty orchestra. The social sensation from Japan where sufficiently inebriated people embarrass themselves in public by singing along to a music track. Yeah it's corny, but it's fun too, with or without the sufficient inebriation.


The most important thing in my life is...God and my children.


About my job...I paint and do repairs for a commercial and residential renovation company. Not much more to say there.


How I spent last vacation...Went to FL to visit with my Grandparents and Aunt. Took in a few shows and dined at some new restaurants. Drove around to look at the ocean a lot. I like those long stretches of road where it's nothing but palm trees and water.


My favorite dish or recipe...Anything cooked on the grill.


[pellucid wolf] wants to know, what brings you here to my space?